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Play Some Sexy Games With Her Tonight

Whether you are entering sexual territory with someone new, or have been hitting the sheets with the same person for a while, it’s never a bad idea to bring some fun into mix.

Showing that you can be playful and have a sense of humor is a huge turn on to your lady. It helps keep things fresh, helps you learn about one another, and can open the door for more serious discussions on things you both might like to try in an upcoming session in the sack.

There are a few easy ways to get the fun started, and none of them require any professional comedic skill:

21 Questions: The Sex Edition

The idea behind this is taking turns asking each other sex-related questions, that can range from mild to risqué. This is not an inquisition; keep the questions light-hearted.

A few examples of good questions are:

  • Have you ever had phone/Skype sex?
  • What’s the craziest place you have ever had sex?
  • Have you ever had someone walk in on you while you were having sex?

You get the idea…

Sexy Mad Libs

Another easy idea that can let you both be a little playful, while at the same time actually gaining some valuable insight into each other’s thoughts. For this one, you each take pieces of paper and write the beginning of a sentences, then toss them in a hat (or bowl).

Here are some examples:

  • If I could only have sex in one position for the rest of my life I would choose ____________.
  • It makes me want to tear your clothes off when you ____________.
  • The hottest thing you can say to me when we are having sex is ____________.
  • The way you ____________ instantly turns me on.

Each of you can throw in as many as you can think of, then take turns picking the pieces of paper out of the hat.

Be honest with your answers, your partner will likely be very interested in your responses. The more honest you are, the more honest she is likely to be.

Put a Sexy Spin on Classic Games

Get creative, make up your own rules for card or dice games. It doesn’t have to be complicated to be naughty and fun.

One very popular option is the sexy dice game.  If you can plan ahead, grab pair of these erotic dice. In a pinch, use two different colored dice, one with a body part corresponding to each number, the other with a sexy action associated with each number. Roll the dice, then carry out the action on the specified body part.  This game is so popular that there are iphone and Blackberry apps available to make this game easy, fun, and instantly available.

Which game you choose is not nearly as important as the intention behind it.  Showing your sense of humor and desire to have fun will keep things fresh and exciting. With a new girl, playful games can be a great sexual ice-breaker even if you’ve already done the deed.

When all else fails, there is always naked Twister, right?

About the author

Lisa, aka Random Girl, is a mild-mannered professional by day, wickedly clever blogger/sex goddess/smartass by night. Lisa has very little internal filtering and is the voice behind Random Girl Blogs. She also makes fantastic chocolate chip cookies.

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5 responses to “Play Some Sexy Games With Her Tonight”

  1. Tony Van Helsng says:

    The Erotic Dice is a great idea.

  2. Jewels says:

    The erotic dice are always a great tension breaker but I like the sexy mad libs and 21 questions too. There is something to be said for "feeling your way" but for opening up lines of communications those games are great. Another fabulous addition the articles here at The Dude Society!

  3. Sandra says:

    Great artticle! And I know the mad libs are meant to be sexy, however, I kept coming up with sentences like: it makes me want to tear your clothes off when you don't pee on the toilet seat. I think I may be going down the wrong path…
    But you rocked this!

  4. Rita says:

    I have erotic dice. LOVE them! I love all of it! You're awesome!

  5. WowThatWasAwkward says:

    Everywhere I go you (random girl) are torturing me.

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