So, what’s your fantasy? A naughty nurse? A horny librarian? Maybe, it’s picking up a hot “stranger” at the bar?
Whatever it is, there's a good chance your girl will be game for playing along, especially if there is something in it for her.
Like playing sexy games
, role playing can add an element of fun and excitement to your sex life. It is a chance for the two of you to assume different characters, whether you're living out a long-time fantasy or just spicing things up in a new and exciting way.
You don’t need to be theater majors to make this work. There are a few key things to keep in mind to make your role playing scenario successful…and hot!
Don’t call it role playing
Making it official with a label may intimidate her or make her uncomfortable. It might imply dressing up is old hat for you, and that's probably not the message you want to send.
Instead, approach it more informally by saying something like “It would be so hot if you put your hair up, put those glasses on, and could help me find my way to the quiet corner of the library." She’ll get the hint.
Offer to take on one of her fantasies
If you know that she has a thing for firemen
, let her know you would love to be her hero for the night. Sometimes, just showing her that you are willing to leave your comfort zone to fulfill her fantasy will motivate her to reciprocate, and offer to be your naughty school girl
for a night.
Keep your sense of humor
Sometimes, something you thought would be really hot, turns out to just feel completely ridiculous. That is OK.
Chances are, if your “hot stranger at the bar” pick up scenario turns into a competition of cheesy pick up lines and awkward stares from other people at the bar, it could have you both laughing your asses off from the sheer failure of attempting to make it sexy.
Laughter can be damn sexy all on its own; the fact that you two were willing give it a try will set the mood.
Pretending to be someone can be liberating and fun
For your girl, getting to shed her every day, in-charge, personality and assume the role of the naïve school girl might be just what she needs to relax and let go.
On the other hand, if she is usually quiet or shy, getting to be the vixen might be incentive for her to really get wild for you. Either way, it’s going to be something new and exciting for both of you to enjoy.
Hero in uniform or naughty librarian, strangers in a bar or hot teacher... the sexy choices are endless. Pick the role playing fantasy that gets things going for you and your girl; have fun being something new for each other.